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Every Single Detail About Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko’s Super Private ‘Ship

Are you also still reeling after the release of Hayley Kiyoko’s Bachelorette-themed music video, “For the Girls?” Because same…

In the project, which dropped on May 20, Hayley stars as the reality series’ first lesbian Bachelorette as she welcomes a group of hopeful gals to a stunning mansion. And just like on the actual show, we’re treated to a bevy of stunt introductions, dramatic antics, and a semi-obvi clear favorite in the form of Becca Tilley, who we now know is the singer’s partner IRL!!! If you’re also obsessing over/invested in the duo’s ‘ship (not to mention their epic relationship announcement), here’s everything you need to know!

April 2018

According to Hayley’s Instagram, she and Becca met for the first time at the singer’s “Expectations” release party in April 2018. Cute AF proof below!

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May 2018

The two are captured together at Nylons Annual Young Hollywood Party as Hayley’s career is skyrocketing. She would go on to be featured on the cover of Nylon‘s first-ever Pride Issue the following month.

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December 2018

Hayley wins the Rising Star Award at Billboard’s Women in Music Awards, and Becca RTs her speech, saying she is “so proud” of the singer 🥺.

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February 2019

Becca is spotted singing along to Hayley’s hit song “Curious” while the singer is on her Encore tour. Okay, obsessed with how supportive the Bach alum is!

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September 2019

Becca confirms to US Weekly that she’s happy and in love…but it seems like we’ll never know with whom 👀. “I like that [my relationship is] private and that it’s my own,” Becca said. “I had a public relationship before and it just felt like I had a lot of people involved, which I know that’s why they sort of watched me in the first place. I’m really happy and I hope to eventually start opening up about it more, but I’m happy with it being private right now.” Privacy respected, hopes crushed!

December 2019

The former reality star tells Lauren Zima on an episode of Roses & Rosé that she isn’t sure when she’ll share her relationship with the world, noting, “The people who I want to know, know about it…I think there’s something really special that it’s just ours.” She also touches on her own show, Scrubbing In, and admits, “It’s hard having a podcast where my co-host Tanya [Rad] is so open about her life and her dating life, and then people being curious about mine since they do follow me from my journey to find love. It’s hard in that sense to be like, ‘Oh, am I letting people down?'”

However, Becca does shed some light at the end of the tunnel when she reveals, “If there’s a moment where I feel like, ‘OK, I’m ready to let everybody into my relationship and everyone can have an opinion on it, [then I will share].'”

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February 2020

During a live taping of her podcast, Scrubbing In With Becca Tilley and Tanya Rad, Becca says that she’s “95 percent” sure she’d marry her current partner. This super-cute revelation grants her mystery bae (which we now know is Hayley!) the code name “95p.”

July 2021

The duo appears together in a number of video montages on social media, including this TikTok from July 3:

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August 2021

…and this choreographed routine to the tune of Doja Cat’s “Get Into It (Yuh)” from August 13:

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You know what they say: the couple that TikToks together, stays together ❤️.

February 2022

Deuxmoi posts a blind item on its Instagram stories that *some* consider to be about Hayley and Becca:

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The rumor mill is rumor mill-ing at this point!

May 2022

On May 18, Becca and Hayley attend the Elle Hollywood Rising event in Los Angeles looking v cute together:

"elle hollywood rising" presented by polo ralph lauren and hulu

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Then, on May 20 *the* music video for Hayley’s song “For the Girls” drops, and everyone collectively loses their shit because in it the singer basically lives out episode 1 of a fictional Bachelorette season.

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The California native meets contestants one by one, has some pretty steamy makeouts, and sparks tons of drama between the girls. Then at the end, it’s Becca who emerges in a stunning gold, off-the-shoulder dress and smiles at Hayley before the song ends 🥺. TBH, it’s pretty safe to assume it’s the Bachelor alum who gets the final rose in hindsight because *dramatic pause* after the music video drops, Becca takes to Twitter to write, “3rd time’s a charm 🌹. So so happy 🥰.”

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That same day, she also shares footage of her and Hayley’s last four years together on Instagram.

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Plus, we find out the night before “For the Girls” premiered, the singer pulled the former reality star onstage, handed her a “final rose,” and gave her a hug and kiss at a bash celebrating the single.

Since then, the adorbs romance has been nothing short of a whirlwind for these two, with Becca admitting on a May 23 episode of Scrubbing In, “When I made the decision to go public with it, I thought, ‘I have this army of people who have my back no matter what. And the people that I care about most in the world are our supporters and they love us,’ And so I was prepared for anything and everything.”

She teared up and continued, “I was not prepared for the amount of love and support that we got. Like, I just could have never predicted…” BRB, grabbing Kleenex stat 🥺.

That’s all we have for now! But, trust us, we’ll be updating this diligently as more amazing moments happen for these two!!!

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